Right Or Wrong ?
Few days ago , i heard from my
friend that he had broken up with his girlfriend just few weeks ago .
As a friend , i asked him the reason and he just gave me a sentence ,
that is " because we have the same surname " . When i heard that ,
there was something came out from my mind . Why we can’t marry with a
person who has same surname with us ? And then , i started to think
about this . At last , i got some opinion on it . Let me tell you about
what i had figured out .
In my opinion , i think there is normal
thing for us to marry a person who has same surname name with us .
There are some points that support my view .
First at all , let
me tell you about the origin of our surname . Long time ago , there was
no such thing called " surname " , what they had is just name only .
However , i don’t know until what time , they started to create what we
called " surname " now . Some of the " surnames " get the ideal from
the name of place . For example , During the period of three kingdom (
the End of Dynasty of HAN ) , the people who live in the kingdom of Wu
started to use " Wu " ( the mandarin word is Ng ) as their surname .
This shows that there maybe no close relationship among the persons who
have the same surname . They just used the same surname only .
Therefore , we still have the change to marry with the person that has
same surname with us .
If u still not agree what i said just now
, i still tell u another point , that is the life of our early
ancestors . Long time ago , there was no much peoples that live in this
world . Then , how they could make sure their generation could last
forever ? What they done during that period was they reproduced within
their family members . Then , they had done what we thought that is "
Wrong " for now long time ago . So , when we say that we can’t marry
with the person who has same surname , this means we had accepted that
our ancestors had done the " Wrong " thing . If our ancestors had done
" Wrong " thing , then what is the value of us ? Are we still called as
Human ? Or we just the product of our ancestors’ " Wrong " thing ? This
i can’t give you a " Right " answer because i still can’t differentiate
what is " Wrong " and " Right " . I let u to decide it ……………..
On
the other hand , i still have one point to support my view , that the
behavior or animal . Generally , we knew that we , human are one of the
members in a Family call Animal . In the world of animal , they usually
reproduce with their family member . This is because in the animal
world , there is little opportunity for you or your partner to has the
time to reproduce . They may need to pay attention on their predator or
the fertilization period of the female organism is short . This may
decreases the change for them to reproduce . So , they need to
reproduce within their family members . That means when we say that we
can’t marry with the person who has same surname , this shows that we
don’t accept us as an animal . If we are not animal , then what is us ?
Alien ? I give you some time to think about it .
When i thought
until this stage , there is a question mark appear in my mind , that is
what is " Right " and what is " Wrong " . In my opinion , actually what
we think that is " Right " is the thing that our ancestor feel that it
is acceptable for them . So , when we done the " Right " thing , that
means we have done the thing that is accepted by your ancestors only .
We can’t say that we are " Right " . If you still can’t understand it ,
let me explain to you in the other way . For example , you act as your
ancestor , you feel that every boy in your family must marry before
they are 25 year olds . So , you set it as your family’s rule . Day
after day , this rule will become the " Right " thing in the your
family , but in the other people’s view , this will be the "Wrong "
rule . However , as the generation of your family need to accept it as
the " Right " thing to do because you were their ancestor of them .
They need to follow what you said in order to pay respect to you . Then
, what is the value of " Right " and the value of " Wrong "? Can you
tell me ???????????????
I think that this is all about what i
want to say for this time . However , this all is my opinion only . You
may not agree what i said here , but i hope that you can give out your
view . In conclusion , i feel that there is no big deal when we marry
with the person who has same surname with us if we go to check about
our DNA before we go to marry . And other thing is i feel that there is
no such thing called " Right thing " or " Wrong thing " in the world ,
what we have in this world is the thing that the world can accept it
only . So , How about u ????????
