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In the whole life , there are a lots of decision we need to take . For example , which school we want to study , what time we want to get married or where we want to take our lunch and more and more . This shows that a decision can influence our thing in a nice way or bad side .

Recently , i have decision i need to make , that is which local university or private university i want to apply .

For sure , i never get my course in the local university that i want , because my CGPA is not so good to get into my course if i want to study in local university . Therefore , i have decided to study my course in private university . According to my survey and observation , there are only three private university that offer my course ( pharmacy ) , that is aimst , imu and usci . Let us discuss one by one about the private university .

First at all , IMU is located near Bukit Jalil . So , it is nearer to my house and i no need to separate from my family life due to i just need take LRT to reach my university . However , the course fee for me to study is too expensive , that is about RM 130 K . This amount is not include my living cost , transport fee and book fee . Since i am from a middle - class family , therefore my daddy cant afford to pay this amount or money . If i not mistake , my dad need to pay around Rm 70 k if i get the maximum loan from PTPTN ( Rm 80 K ) . Then , this course is not recognised by LAN yet . After looking on this , i cant get into IMU to study my course .

Secondly , USCI is located near Taman Connaught there . So , it also is near to my house and i no need go to out station to study . If i study there , i just need to take bus or drive my car go there only . At the same time , the course fee for me to study here is around RM 105 K . Compared to IMU , it is cheaper and it is recognised by LAN . So , for a normal people , they will choose USCI for they to study pharmacy . However , according to some of my friends who study in USCI or other college , there is management problem in USCI and they will charge you many fees . So , the money you suppose to spend will increase . Then , for living cost and transport fee , the total money that i will spend is around RM 130 K ( exclude the extra fee ) . So , this is only my second choice for me to study .

Lastly , came to the last private university , AIMST . AISMT is located near Sungai Pattani , Kedah . That mean i need to travel from KL to go there to study and i need to separate from my family life about 4 years . So , it is so far for KL people . However , the course fee just about Rm 99 K only . AT the same time , there is a new campus for us to study . Then , we will use all the new equipments , new hostel , new library and more . Consider on the accomodation and meal , i will spend around RM 20 K within this 4 years . Since the campus is far from the town , therefore less money will be spent on entertainment . Living cost that i need will be lesser compare to IMU and USCI . At the same time , i can more focus on my study . And about the total fee is around RM 125 K only . Therefore , this private university is my first choice .

This about the survey and my view about these three private universities . These information maybe wrong and not accepted . So , i hope that everyone of you can give me about your view on there three private universities . Then , i can make my choice right now ….. Thanks ……

Dream is the only thing that everyone in this world likes most . For me
, i have a dream since i studied at primary school . That dream is i
want to have an older brother or sister . Since i am the older son in
my family , therefore i have a responsibility to take care my brothers
. However , in my deep heart , i really want an older brother or sister
. i think that an older brother will play with you , disturb you or
scold u . This is why i always look very childish or stupid in front of
my lovely friends . I really hope that there is someone that cares
about me , always looks after me or listens to my story . However , no
much people knew about this . This maybe because i seldom tell people
about the real personality of me in my deep heart . There is a reason
for me to do that . This is because i am the oldest son in my family ,
i need to settle my problems by myself in order to let my mum and dad
have the time to take care my brothers . Haih….. , maybe this reason
causes me seldom tell people about my problem .

On the other
hand , why i want to have big brother or big sister ? This is because i
want to have one person that can give me opinion about anything that i
need to decide for my future . For example , when i need to decide what
course that i study in my future , i hope that there is a big brother
or sister who can give me some advises about this . Or he or she can be
acted as an example for me to move forward . There is a lots of
advantages for having a big brother and sister . I really want it lah
……………

By the way , there is only the dream of mine .
i really cannot hope that my parents can give me a big brother or
sister . So , what can i do ? I just do what i suppose to do , for
example is the role of big brother and more …………. Then ,
gambateh Lah ………….

    Ha ! Ha ! Ha …………………………….

Few days ago , i heard from my
friend that he had broken up with his girlfriend just few weeks ago .
As a friend , i asked him the reason and he just gave me a sentence ,
that is " because we have the same surname " . When i heard that ,
there was something came out from my mind . Why we can’t marry with a
person who has same surname with us ? And then , i started to think
about this . At last , i got some opinion on it . Let me tell you about
what i had figured out .

In my opinion , i think there is normal
thing for us to marry a person who has same surname name with us .
There are some points that support my view .

First at all , let
me tell you about the origin of our surname . Long time ago , there was
no such thing called " surname " , what they had is just name only .
However , i don’t know until what time , they started to create what we
called " surname " now . Some of the " surnames " get the ideal from
the name of place . For example , During the period of three kingdom (
the End of Dynasty of HAN ) , the people who live in the kingdom of Wu
started to use " Wu " ( the mandarin word is Ng ) as their surname .
This shows that there maybe no close relationship among the persons who
have the same surname . They just used the same surname only .
Therefore , we still have the change to marry with the person that has
same surname with us .

If u still not agree what i said just now
, i still tell u another point , that is the life of our early
ancestors . Long time ago , there was no much peoples that live in this
world . Then , how they could make sure their generation could last
forever ? What they done during that period was they reproduced within
their family members . Then , they had done what we thought that is "
Wrong " for now long time ago . So , when we say that we can’t marry
with the person who has same surname , this means we had accepted that
our ancestors had done the " Wrong " thing . If our ancestors had done
" Wrong " thing , then what is the value of us ? Are we still called as
Human ? Or we just the product of our ancestors’ " Wrong " thing ? This
i can’t give you a " Right " answer because i still can’t differentiate
what is " Wrong " and " Right " . I let u to decide it ……………..

On
the other hand , i still have one point to support my view , that the
behavior or animal . Generally , we knew that we , human are one of the
members in a Family call Animal . In the world of animal , they usually
reproduce with their family member . This is because in the animal
world , there is little opportunity for you or your partner to has the
time to reproduce . They may need to pay attention on their predator or
the fertilization period of the female organism is short . This may
decreases the change for them to reproduce . So , they need to
reproduce within their family members . That means when we say that we
can’t marry with the person who has same surname , this shows that we
don’t accept us as an animal . If we are not animal , then what is us ?
Alien ? I give you some time to think about it .

When i thought
until this stage , there is a question mark appear in my mind , that is
what is " Right " and what is " Wrong " . In my opinion , actually what
we think that is " Right " is the thing that our ancestor feel that it
is acceptable for them . So , when we done the " Right " thing , that
means we have done the thing that is accepted by your ancestors only .
We can’t say that we are " Right " . If you still can’t understand it ,
let me explain to you in the other way . For example , you act as your
ancestor , you feel that every boy in your family must marry before
they are 25 year olds . So , you set it as your family’s rule . Day
after day , this rule will become the " Right " thing in the your
family , but in the other people’s view , this will be the "Wrong "
rule . However , as the generation of your family need to accept it as
the " Right " thing to do because you were their ancestor of them .
They need to follow what you said in order to pay respect to you . Then
, what is the value of " Right " and the value of " Wrong "? Can you
tell me ???????????????

I think that this is all about what i
want to say for this time . However , this all is my opinion only . You
may not agree what i said here , but i hope that you can give out your
view . In conclusion , i feel that there is no big deal when we marry
with the person who has same surname with us if we go to check about
our DNA before we go to marry . And other thing is i feel that there is
no such thing called " Right thing " or " Wrong thing " in the world ,
what we have in this world is the thing that the world can accept it
only . So , How about u ????????